If you want to learn how to give your man the most amazing blow jobs ever and have him literally worshiping the ground you walk on, you’ll first need to learn the most common mistakes women make. Here are the top 7 things men complain about when receiving a blow job – in reverse order:
7. Being Bitten
Never ever use your teeth – don’t even playfully gnaw – unless your guy specifically asks you to (only a very tiny minority of men actually like this). In fact, you should learn the best techniques that will help you avoid accidentally scraping your teeth against his penis.
6. Not Long Enough
Many women who don’t like to give blow jobs will race through the process or take short-cuts hoping their man doesn’t notice as long as they have a good orgasm. Sorry ladies, there are no good shortcuts and men usually DO notice if you rush.
5. Being Interrupted
In this age of electronic devices and hectic schedules, it is easy to get interrupted at the most inopportune times. It’s always a good idea to turn off your cell phone, your beeper, and any other electronic devices that could go off during the act. Also, make sure your door is locked.
4. When She Stops Just Short of Coming
If you want to give your man a truly amazing blow job, you’ll need to make sure to follow through all the way to the end. It’s ok to stop and tease him in the beginning but when he’s about to come, make sure you keep up the intensity and rhythm. Otherwise, you will frustrate him.
3. Can’t See Her
Blow jobs are not just about physical sensation. The mental aspect is just as important. You can really raise a man’s pleasure just by making sure you are both in a position where he can easily see what you’re doing. This mental image will REALLY turn him on and it will have lasting effects… possibly even years.
2. No Enthusiasm – She’d Rather Be Doing Anything Else
For most men, if you don’t enjoy it, he won’t either. Along these same lines, the more you enjoy it, the more he’ll enjoy it. It’s important to be in the moment and really enjoy pleasuring your man. If you are pretending, he will pick up on it.
1. No Variety & Nothing Special
This can be especially true if you’ve been in a relationship for a while. It is quite common for the sex to become stale and the lack of variety in the blow job department is the #1 sex complaint among men in committed relationships. This can also be true in a new relationship. I’ve had male friends tell me they broke up with women after they gave them a rather dull blow job because they felt the woman really wasn’t totally into them enough.
For men, it’s not enough to just say that you love him – you need to actually SHOW him through your actions. You can show him how much you care about his pleasure and his needs by giving him amazing blow jobs.
